What Your Woman Really Wants But Afraid to Tell

According to a renowned author some women want to live up to that strong woman image and they act as though their feelings can't be hurt. These women project this image of "I will survive, I will move on," and consequently, there are a lot of hurt women

According to a renowned author some women want to live up to that strong woman image and they act as though their feelings can't be hurt.  These women project this image of " I will survive, I will move on," and consequently, there are a lot of hurt women out there.

Sometimes a woman feels insecure about being open and honest about their needs because of the male sabotage.  Here is an honest, in-your-face list of what your women really wants, but afraid to tell you.

Be a real man. She wants you to be a man, the real man.  No matter how independent and strong she may appear, there is nothing more attractive to a woman than a strong man to make her feel like a lady at all-times.

Be honest.  She wants you to be honest.   Honesty is the best policy when dealing with your woman; if you just want to seize the moment and have a few fun dates, tell her.  She needs to know if the two of you are going to be in a committed, monogamous relationship, or if you are going to unofficially practice polygamy.  Tell her if you're going to be committed, so that if she decides, she can hold out until she finds her ideal companion.

Number one.  She needs to know that she's no. 1.  A woman needs to feel taken care of, and not necessarily monetarily.  Your woman wants to be reassured that she is the apple of your eyes at all times.

Flatter her.  She wants to be pampered and flattered.  There has never been in time in history when she want to be pampered, no matter who they are or where they work.  Some women wants to come home after a hard day's  work to a rich, hot bubble bath and a candlelit dinner.  Bubbles and candles are great, but nothing is sweeter to your women's ear than a little flattery.  Even you don't like her outfit,  tell a woman she looks good.  Or after, she's slaved over your dinner, compliment the meal she has prepared for you.

Be gentleman.  She prefers a gentleman.  Most women enjoy being fussed over; it's very romantic for a man to hail a cab, yield a seater or open a door for a woman.  Men who believe chivalry is dead are the major turn-off to women.  Most women enjoy chivalry.  Period.

Sex versus love.  She wants a man who knows the difference between sex and love.  Sometimes, she just wants a little romance, and this shouldn't always lead to the bedroom.  She likes gentle kisses and caresses, and she wants to be hugged and babied all the time, in the car and even on the street.  Men need to understand that it's not always about sex.  Men tend to think romance is sex, but sometimes your woman just wants to be hugged.

Assure her Women feel uncomfortable about their mate having a friendship with a female whom she does not know.  Your woman wants to know the extent of your friendship, and she wants reassurance from you that it's just a friendship and that nothing else is going on.  She may read more into it if you're secretive about your friendship.

She can't be bought.  Although your woman does love flowers, gifts and candy, most women do not appreciate men who believe that forgiveness, love and affection can be bought at the nearest boutique.

Source: Jun de Leon, "What Your Woman Really Wants But Afraid to Tell", CHIC Magazine, Aug. 2001

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